Motivation Monday: Opportunity

Opportunity.  It means you have a chance.  One Chance, to give it everything you have to claim what you’ve always wanted.  Chances like this don’t come along often.  You’ve spent years working hard, educating yourself, building your list of contacts, doing the work for free, all in hopes of getting a shot at the big time.  But are you willing to give everything you’ve got to change your entire life? Are you willing to take a leap and give up everything you’ve worked on just for a shot at the big time? Not everyone is willing to risk it.  We...

Motivation Monday: Motivation for Mondays

Why do I do these posts on Monday? Is it because of the alliteration that makes it catchy and draws you to these posts? A little bit.  but the main reason behind making a weekly motivation post on a Monday is that for most people, Monday is the beginning of the week, a fresh start after everything that happened last week. Why do so many people despise Monday? For most, it’s the end of time off with the ones they love and back to the work for five days.  There is an innate dread for the start of a long...

Motivation Monday: Ask yourself why

Why do you go to work every day? It seems like a simple question, yet its one that very few people can answer confidently.  We spend our young lives learning in school all of the basics until we are teenagers.  Then we have to choose post-secondary education that focusses on a specific profession that we are interested in, even though we have only heard about it from a friend or family member.  Then suddenly we are in the workforce, battling it out to find a good job that pays well, and then we go on and work faithfully for a...

Motivation Monday: Satisfaction

“Dissatisfied people change the world” I have seen this quote in many different forms, though I couldn’t find any one person to attribute it to.  The idea behind it is very powerful; It means that those who are unhappy with their situation in life or with the state of the world will inevitably be driven to innovate and change it.  If it’s the former, it may drive someone to get a new job, break up with a significant other, or even move.  If the latter,  it may drive someone to become a social or political activist in order to create...

Motivation Monday: The Secret of Working with Others

In the development of humanity, we naturally evolved to fear the unknown, to be wary of new people, those who were outside of our own stone age ‘tribe.’  But at the time, it was rare for someone new to appear, and if they did, it was probably with hostility as their intent. In today’s world, human being have naturally found themselves surrounded by new people on a daily basis.  Even from a young age, in school, we meet more new people than our ancestors would have in their entire lives.  I remember that through four years of high school, I...

29 on the 29th: A Birthday post for Motivation Monday

Fitting it should fall on a Monday – so we should call this a motivation Monday post.  This won’t be about me per se.  I’m not going to spend two hours writing about my life, expecting you to read every minute detail and be captivated.  The truth is, even though its been interesting and even hilarious at times, I haven’t really lived a life that’s any more captivating than anyone else’s.  I’ve had fun, and I’ve taken risks, and I’ve made mistakes, and I’ve loved and lost time and time again.  Even though every single person can say the same,...

Motivation Monday: The Quarter Life Crisis

There’s this new thing I heard of recently that people my age and nearby (20-32 roughly) are experiencing.  It’s being called a quarter life crisis.  It’s a time in a person’s life where they are making that change from young adult to ‘real’ adult, and although the trigger is different for everyone, the symptoms are similar.  They feel lost, hopeless, chained to a career that may never pan out.  They’re worried about money constantly, and question every.single.decision…. many times. Sound familiar? Let’s go back to the beginning to understand why we feel this way.  When we were young the world...

Motivation Monday: Form Good Habits to Succeed Subconsciously

  “The chains of habit are too weak to be felt until they are too strong to be broken.” ―Samuel Johnson We all have our good habits and bad habits.  Some of them are conscious, like the process of cooking a meal we’ve practised several times.  Others are unconscious, like how you may be lost in thought in the shower, yet you still end up clean.  In fact we live our entire lives on a series of routines, forever following our experience of what we’ve done over and over.  This can be as small as regularly buying a paper on the...

Motivation Monday – Self-Medication

We all get tired.  We all feel lonely.  We all feel sad, jealous, envious, hurt, beaten down, unattractive, ugly, worthless, unmotivated, and shy. …Sometimes. If you feel these feelings too often, please go and find help.  I’ve been down that road.  There’s no shame in admitting you need counselling or other help. But everyone does feel this way once in awhile.  happiness is a habit, one that must be cultivated.  If anyone has ever told you to ‘just be happy’ then you should tell them to fuck off. When we do feel these emotions or tiredness, we often want to...

Finding enjoyment in everyday life

I’m lazy….. Well sometimes. I like to spend time relaxing, watching a tv show or playing a video game, or even playing guitar, which I guess seems like a productive thing to do.  Generally, I procrastinate like a hero, achieving absolutely nothing.  With my recent lack of work due to the entrepreneurial lifestyle, I found myself with a lot of free time. i spent the last three months having fun, catching up on tv and video games, improving my guitar playing, and spending time with good friends.  This is all fine and good, but while my friends were working on...